Beware of girlfriend gifts
Here are some lists of "Gifts" that you should never give to your girlfriend. Be pretty careful while presenting her any gift as the gift has both positive and negative meaning that it carrries along with it and about that we may be unknown.
It is definitely right that men and women are really different in many aspects: like the way of thinking, their needs, expectations, and the way of working.
Some example that might help you to decide, gifts mean a lot to women, but the same thing cannot be predicated about men. A woman knows how to ''read'' the message that a gift is prevailing, but men don’t pay too much attention to the messages either gives much importance to a gift.
Oh my God! Choosing a right gift for a woman can be very tough as the right gift tells her you're thoughtful, observant and you really understand her, but the wrong one can mean opposite. What happens if your gift doesn't transmit your real feelings for her though the gift that you present her says you love her, that you cherish her, know her, is pretty safe.
Either talking more with your girlfriend go and get one of the touching gift for her as the gift worth more than a thousands words for a woman. Not many of us, men, know which a bad gift for a woman is. Some of the gifts also have negative meanings that are transferred unknowingly so in order to not surprise her negative with your gift, here are some gifts you should strictly avoid buying her:-
I) Insulting gifts:-
1) Lingerie – Haha it is a risky bet; the lingerie u choose may not be of her taste; you have to choose the correct size, because size does matter, the right style for her; you have to choose something that she likes but not of your choice what you'd like her to wear; in case of wrong size, the message she will understand is or that she is too fat, or that you are insinuating she needs a breast enlargements; so, forget it. But you can try after sure.
2) Wrinkle cream – Even she needs that, you are not the right person to buy it for her; let her do it; you will make her feel old by bringing this and upset her.
3) Awful flowers – for women flowers have a big importance and that's why you have to realize the difference between good flowers and bad ones; if you don't know anything about flowers, you may ask a female florist to help you choose the right bouquet for your girlfriend; you don't want to go there with some flowers you may give to her grandmother, is me right?
4) Socks –after all socks are considered the most offensive and disappointing gift; most people are happy to buy their own socks; so it's not a good idea to choose. So try next.
5) Laser hair removal – It is great yaar, even if you are tired of her mustache or stubbly legs, don't buy such a thing; maybe she will buy herself one from her own initiative. Let her feel that and do on her own.
6) A cheap perfume – no matter how fancy it looks, you can't fool her; women usually know many things about the beauty products, perfumes, and which the best are.
II). Totally "NO" gifts:-
1) A pet – because to raise a pet involves a lot of responsibility, not everybody is glad to get a pet as gift; is she said that she likes dogs that not necessarily means that she wants one; if she decides to buy a pet, let her choose one and buy herself, don’t involve yourself for that.
2) A gift for yourself –it will be a selfish fact; like a golf set or a PlayStation. gift should be focused on what she wants and not what you want; don't assume that you have the same interest, because even if she stay and watch football games or either cricket and with you this doesn't mean that she wants to have soccer ball
III). Things that makes her feel very bad about herself:-
1)Membership to a diet program – even if she told you that she would like to join one, it is not a good gift; she might think that you consider she is not beautiful anymore until she won't lose weight
2)Clothes – lady loves clothes but again you may choose the wrong size, and make her feel bad; anyway, even if you have impeccable taste, clothes are a woman pleasure
3) Exercise equipment – it is an unpleasant and either rude way to tell her she's fat; you'd better ask her to join you at some activities such as cycling, hiking or jogging; say her that you want to do it for yourself and don't want to go alone that will be a loving way to act somebody for their benefits. Choose an activity that you think she would like and doesn't need an expensive equipment
IV). Nothing:-
1) When see says “ I need nothing” Do not believe this, because this is not true; she said this but she is expecting to receive something from you; if you attend her party say birthday party without a gift, you may see on her face that she will be disappointed and upset as she was expecting something from you.
V) Gifts that require work:-
1) Cleaning products – the gifts like vacuum cleaners, mops, dusters, oven cleaner or other household cleaning products; she will wonder if that you consider that her place is dirty or what ; also she will understand that you see her more as a maid and not your partner, so be aware guys.
2) Cooking utensils – the message that she will understand from this gift is that her place is in the kitchen; a cookbook – might be thinking that you hate her cooking; if you want to encourage her to cook more you'd better make her some positive compliments; praise the meals she does and she will be more likely to take more of an interest in the culinary arts
May you all be successful in choosing the right gift for your girlfriend, I wish you a good luck and remember that you have to give her something that really makes her feel special and loved. And the gift must make her thoughtful about it.
Let her feel that the way you present her that gift is the way you know her totally and can understand her choice and all likes and dislikes. Remember don’t disappoint or upset her as for her you are the world, she might be hurt for not finding you to understand her.
It is definitely right that men and women are really different in many aspects: like the way of thinking, their needs, expectations, and the way of working.
Some example that might help you to decide, gifts mean a lot to women, but the same thing cannot be predicated about men. A woman knows how to ''read'' the message that a gift is prevailing, but men don’t pay too much attention to the messages either gives much importance to a gift.
Oh my God! Choosing a right gift for a woman can be very tough as the right gift tells her you're thoughtful, observant and you really understand her, but the wrong one can mean opposite. What happens if your gift doesn't transmit your real feelings for her though the gift that you present her says you love her, that you cherish her, know her, is pretty safe.
Either talking more with your girlfriend go and get one of the touching gift for her as the gift worth more than a thousands words for a woman. Not many of us, men, know which a bad gift for a woman is. Some of the gifts also have negative meanings that are transferred unknowingly so in order to not surprise her negative with your gift, here are some gifts you should strictly avoid buying her:-
I) Insulting gifts:-
1) Lingerie – Haha it is a risky bet; the lingerie u choose may not be of her taste; you have to choose the correct size, because size does matter, the right style for her; you have to choose something that she likes but not of your choice what you'd like her to wear; in case of wrong size, the message she will understand is or that she is too fat, or that you are insinuating she needs a breast enlargements; so, forget it. But you can try after sure.
2) Wrinkle cream – Even she needs that, you are not the right person to buy it for her; let her do it; you will make her feel old by bringing this and upset her.
3) Awful flowers – for women flowers have a big importance and that's why you have to realize the difference between good flowers and bad ones; if you don't know anything about flowers, you may ask a female florist to help you choose the right bouquet for your girlfriend; you don't want to go there with some flowers you may give to her grandmother, is me right?
4) Socks –after all socks are considered the most offensive and disappointing gift; most people are happy to buy their own socks; so it's not a good idea to choose. So try next.
5) Laser hair removal – It is great yaar, even if you are tired of her mustache or stubbly legs, don't buy such a thing; maybe she will buy herself one from her own initiative. Let her feel that and do on her own.
6) A cheap perfume – no matter how fancy it looks, you can't fool her; women usually know many things about the beauty products, perfumes, and which the best are.
II). Totally "NO" gifts:-
1) A pet – because to raise a pet involves a lot of responsibility, not everybody is glad to get a pet as gift; is she said that she likes dogs that not necessarily means that she wants one; if she decides to buy a pet, let her choose one and buy herself, don’t involve yourself for that.
2) A gift for yourself –it will be a selfish fact; like a golf set or a PlayStation. gift should be focused on what she wants and not what you want; don't assume that you have the same interest, because even if she stay and watch football games or either cricket and with you this doesn't mean that she wants to have soccer ball
III). Things that makes her feel very bad about herself:-
1)Membership to a diet program – even if she told you that she would like to join one, it is not a good gift; she might think that you consider she is not beautiful anymore until she won't lose weight
2)Clothes – lady loves clothes but again you may choose the wrong size, and make her feel bad; anyway, even if you have impeccable taste, clothes are a woman pleasure
3) Exercise equipment – it is an unpleasant and either rude way to tell her she's fat; you'd better ask her to join you at some activities such as cycling, hiking or jogging; say her that you want to do it for yourself and don't want to go alone that will be a loving way to act somebody for their benefits. Choose an activity that you think she would like and doesn't need an expensive equipment
IV). Nothing:-
1) When see says “ I need nothing” Do not believe this, because this is not true; she said this but she is expecting to receive something from you; if you attend her party say birthday party without a gift, you may see on her face that she will be disappointed and upset as she was expecting something from you.
V) Gifts that require work:-
1) Cleaning products – the gifts like vacuum cleaners, mops, dusters, oven cleaner or other household cleaning products; she will wonder if that you consider that her place is dirty or what ; also she will understand that you see her more as a maid and not your partner, so be aware guys.
2) Cooking utensils – the message that she will understand from this gift is that her place is in the kitchen; a cookbook – might be thinking that you hate her cooking; if you want to encourage her to cook more you'd better make her some positive compliments; praise the meals she does and she will be more likely to take more of an interest in the culinary arts
May you all be successful in choosing the right gift for your girlfriend, I wish you a good luck and remember that you have to give her something that really makes her feel special and loved. And the gift must make her thoughtful about it.
Let her feel that the way you present her that gift is the way you know her totally and can understand her choice and all likes and dislikes. Remember don’t disappoint or upset her as for her you are the world, she might be hurt for not finding you to understand her.
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